Genre: Abuse

"Why Is He So Mean to Me?" offers a sobering look at verbal and emotional abuse and the confusing, chaotic and debilitating dynamic of the enabler-abuser relationship. It unveils many of the tactics used by the verbal/emotional abuser, the enabler-victim's ever-unsuccessful attempts to understand and earn love from her abuser, and the opposing forces at work within the abusive relationship. Without change, the relationship will continue to spiral toward collapse from the weight of the insanity, or every member of the family will suffer and carry the wounds and behaviors of this devastating lifestyle into the next generation. There is never an excuse for abuse. The enabler must learn the truth, and equip himself or herself in order to make the hard choices necessary for change and restoration. The more you know, the better equipped you will be to reclaim your life. More info →

Why Is He So Mean to Me? “Why Is He So Mean to Me?” unravels the confusing and chaotic world of verbal and emotional abuse. The book walks the reader through the debilitating characteristics of the enabler-abuser relationship, clearly revealing the abuser mindset and the abuser’s most common tactics. It also acknowledges the victim’s efforts to earn her abuser’s love and explains why those efforts fail. “Why Is He So Mean to Me?” answers the question every abuse victim asks herself. The book equips the reader to identify the abuse when it happens and then empowers her to reclaim her value - and her life. "I survived, and you can, too. Don't wait. Get help. Break the cycle." - Cindy Burrell More info →

"God is My Witness: Making a Case for Biblical Divorce" takes a hard look at some of the common misconceptions associated with biblical divorce. Does God really hate divorce? What did Jesus mean? Are there situations other than adultery that justify divorce? Are all believers who divorce "hard-hearted" and forbidden from remarrying? Move beyond the traditional church script and discover God's heart for marriage and His defense of those who are being neglected and abused in the name of faith. More info →

"God is My Witness: Making a Case for Biblical Divorce" takes a hard look at some of the common misconceptions associated with biblical divorce. Does God really hate divorce? What did Jesus mean? Are there situations other than adultery that justify divorce? Are all believers who divorce "hard-hearted" and forbidden from remarrying? Move beyond the traditional church script and discover God's heart for marriage and His defense of those who are being neglected and abused in the name of faith. More info →

"He doesn't mean to hurt me-he just loses control." "He can be sweet and gentle." "He's scared me a few times, but he never hurts the children-he's a great father." "He's had a really hard life..." Women in abusive relationships tell themselves these things every day. Now they can see inside the minds of angry and controlling men-and change their own lives. In this groundbreaking book, a counselor shows how to improve, survive, or leave an abusive relationship, with: More info →