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Why Is He So Mean to Me?

I am so grateful for this book. I just read it in two days and like the other people, highlighted the majority of it.

This book is like listening to a girlfriend who has gone through abuse and come out the other end and is in a much better place.
It gave me hope, along with a strong wake up call that I desperately needed. I’ve read a lot of books on abuse to try to make sense of what has gone wrong in my last 25 years of marriage….yes, this has been a hard pill to swallow for me. This book is less about clinical definitions and more about the personal effect and psyche of the enabler…. Something I didn’t see myself as. I thought because I addressed the behavior of my abusive husband consistently when I wasn’t too scared that I was addressing the situation. I never took action to back up my words and as a result, my children have grown to adulthood in an abusive home. This book helped me see that I need to see my value and take that brave step of leaving…. Which I did tonight. So wow, this was that book that really helped me move forward. I highly recommend it to all women struggling through their marriages who are holding on trying to be loving and enduring untold pain. Read this book! – Lori J. (Amazon)